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How to Get Motivated

In life there are many things that can motivate us and give the pep we need to keep going. Religious beliefs, music, talking to someone who is very positive minded, watching a film with a positive outcome, reading books on positivity... there are many things we could use. But why do some things work for others but do not work for us? Well the answer lies in the belief system we have built up over the years. Our beliefs are built from years of indoctrination of one kind or another. Our parents put beliefs into our heads, then we are taught how to think at school and then we are strongly influenced by the television, radio and or books and magazines.

These beliefs can be helpful or harmful to our goals in life. If you were raised by someone who felt that we all can only occupy one position in life and there is no reason to try and push against the position you were born into by bettering yourself, then that belief is going to have very damaging impact on your life. It is hard to believe that a parent would tell this to their child but the reason is not always to be unkind or to harm them in some way. It is often to protect them from areas of knowledge or parts of the world that the parent simply does not understand and therefore harbors fears for their children as result. Religion for example has a strong theme about humility that people take on to varying degrees. In most religious belief systems you are encouraged not to toot your own horn and certain religious sectors frown upon even adorning the body in any way that might bring 'undue' attention to someone.

Your motivation to do better would be always impacted by this belief that your parent has helped to cement into your brain. So ultimately, you may indeed listen to a motivational CD and be moved by it, or read book and be moved by the exciting promise of better, or hear a very motivational speaker who makes an impression upon you but given enough time your belief system that works against self elevation would kick in and your motivational pull would be killed.
Therefore your limiting, hindering belief systems must be tackled first if one is to be able to take flight and make progress in a meaningful way.

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Change Your Life - Find Your Purpose

We spend a major portion of our lives working, unfortunately many of us feel trapped in jobs we don't enjoy. Answer the following questions, and if your answer is 'Yes', carry on reading:

Do you feel like you are treading water or in a rut?

Are you bored at work? Do you struggle to get motivated?

Thankfully it doesn't have to be like that, you have got to this position by some of the choices you have made and limiting beliefs you have creating or inherited. You CAN be happy in your work and ENJOY every single day by making some changes in your thinking.

Find Your Gifting
Everybody has a talent, something that we are good at and love to do. If you are struggling to find yours answer the following question:

If I gave you 10 million pounds tomorrow but you had to work to keep the money, what would you do? This is great way to find your gifting or passion as you will instinctively know what you would spend your time doing if you had all the money you need.

Would you devote your time to the local community, play music, travel, climb mountains? Only you will know what your unique talent/passion is, get a clear picture in your head, what it is, how it feels to do it and why you love it so much. This is your life's purpose or gift to the world.

Creating A Business From Your Passion

Now have made that decision you are halfway to living life on your terms and enjoying every day. You know what you want, you just need to get it.

'Do what you love and the money will follow' - Jacob Needleman

Spend as much time as you can doing it and getting really good at it. Think about how you can make money from it, everything can be monetized. Get in touch with other people who are interested in it. Look at other companies who do similar work and see how you can do it better. Read about it, learn about it, experiment with new ideas.

Even if your passion is in the most specialised market, there will always be people who are interested in paying for your knowledge. Open your mind to the possibility that you will be a success in your purpose and ideas will come to you on how to achieve success.

Just think it, live it, breathe it. Speak with friends and family about what you want to do and get them to buy into your vision. If they are negative or put barriers in your way, find other people who are willing to help or support you.

No Excuses

Now before you start saying "I can't because... I need to support my family", "I don't know anything about business", "I will never earn enough money".... yadda, yadda, yadda. You can create a business around any talent if you remove any self imposed barriers and if you don't know how to do something, get help from somebody who does!

Doing something you love you easily motivate other people to help you achieve your goals, have tons of energy and enjoy financial rewards. A big dream attracts big people and big rewards.
'Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results' - Albert Einstein
It really is as simple as that, it may not be easy to get out of your current situation, but by keeping the life you want in mind at all times you will soon realise your dreams. Let's face it, what is the alternative, hating every
working day of your life until you die?

'Do something you love and you will never have to work a day in your life' - Confucius
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How to Create Motivation and Stay Motivated All the Time

Do you want to know the secret to success? The secret to success is to create motivation and stay motivated all the time. Think about it, everyone wants to be successful, but only those who are able to stay motivated and take action are those who are truly successful.

If you are not motivated, you will never take action because you do not have the drive to do it. And if you do not take action, it will be impossible for you to achieve the results you want in your life. It is all about creating the level of motivation you want and staying motivated all the time. So are you ready to discover how you can do this? Here are 3 powerful tips that can help you...
  1. The number one reason people fail to come up with the motivation is because they are focusing on the wrong thing. Most people will tend to think and focus on the doing the task instead of focusing on the rewards that they will get from accomplishing that task. When you think about the rewards you get from accomplishing the task, you will be more motivated. Thus, think and focus about what you will get from finishing the task, not doing the task.
  2. Try to tell as many people about your dreams and your goals. This is to put yourself on the line so you will have no other choice but to do it. Whenever you make a public commitment, you know it very well that if you did not achieve it or do it, you will get laughed by people around you. Use this technique carefully, it can hurt you or it can motivate you.
  3. Find out what you actually hate to do. This is because sometimes you do not procrastinate on the whole project, you only put of a certain part of the project. After you find out exactly what you hate to do or where you truly procrastinate, try to make fun of doing it. For example, if you hate to clean up the kitchen, try to have some fun while doing it with music, songs, or even audio programs.
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A Better World Is Possible

by: Andy Carloff
"It regards reality as the sole enemy and as the source of all suffering, with which it is impossible to live, so that one must break off all relations with it if one is to be in any way happy. The hermit turns his back on the world and will have no truck with it. But one can do more than that; one can try to recreate the world, to build up in its stead another world in which its most unbearable features are eliminated and replaced by others that are in conformity with one's own wishes."
-- Sigmund Freud
"Civilization and Its Discontents," by Sigmund Freud, chapter 2
If a generation that cherished love and affectionately adored honesty were to create two gods, they would be pessimism and optimism. The first gave them the sight and vision to realize what is wrong, without holding steadfast to prejudice and bigotry. The second gave them the strength and endurance to create a better world, even if it started and ended with one changed soul. The bible of this generation, the religious text and scripture which they would refer to in their daily lives, would consist of dialogue between these two gods. Pessimism always seemed to represent apathy, a sense of deadness accompanied by lost dreams. But, then again, it was the agitator, the creator, the mover. Optimism would always seem to represent activity and growth, a sense of life and a desire to do something about it, as well as ecstacy and pleasure. This generation of lovers and thinkers would worship these gods through acts of kindness, mercy, and love. The names they would give their children would have hidden meanings, like "romantic poet," or "moment of orgasm."
If a good person were to try to live up to the expectation of change and growth with the bold honesty to look forward, he ould be a cynic as much as an optimist. His sacred scripture would simply be: "A Better World Is Possible."
When we look upon our own society, examine its ways and its manners, we discover a great deal that we wish to change. We see crime, we see poverty, we see drug addictions, murder, war, domestic abuse, child abuse, rape, theft, brutality, and abuse of every power. Those of the humane way have always believed that it was the goodness of men that brought them together for unity and strength. Today, we stand on the corpse of modern life. It may have been the social instinct which has brought us together and has formed our families, our towns, our cities, and our nations, but there is so much more to it than that. Cities have become the hives of vice and misery, the perfect strangers to loneliness. Our modern poets and romantics stand before this marvel of life, and are speechless.
When we think of pain and suffering, what do you think it is that is the most ominous source of suffering? There is no doubt that it is from some relationship within society, or at least within human civilization. Perhaps it is the unjust social relationship between men and women, resulting in sexism and domestic abuse? Perhaps it is the unjust relationship that exists between nations, resulting in economic embargos and wars? Maybe it is the relationship between citizens, involving crime and theft, or the relationship between employer and employee, resulting in poverty and misery? Whatever it is that is the greatest cause of suffering in the world, there are some things that must be considered. First, we are analyzing the relationships that exist between each other to discover the roots of this suffering. It is an internal problem. It is not a question of natural disasters and the fury that nature has wrought on mankind. No, it is a question of the way that we act among ourselves, the customs we forge anad the rules we make. Second, as Freethinkers and those genuinely concerned with justice, when we analyze these relationships in society, we do so with the intent of creating a more free and more just system.
The essential difference today between an Anarchist and a Liberal is this: the Liberal wants to repair the damage done by the system, the Anarchist wants to repair the system. The first looks to poverty and creates welfare, completely leaving the economic system untouched. The latter wants to completely abolish any economic system that will lead to homelessness, poverty, or misery.
It was not uncommon or rare in our past for these social relationships to change, become altered, or become completely abolished. It was once tradition that men treat women like property, that wars between nations were glorious events, that poverty was god's naturally awarded condition for a certain class of people, that crime was simply second nature to each human, and therefore indefeatable. All of this was believed by the people, they took it in as unquestionable truths. Well, it was the liberating experience of any honest individual, to realize that every conscious organism simply wants to be free. From such a humble start, the progression of humane thought has come a long way. Citizens have collectively allocated women's rights, worker's rights, children's rights, citizen's rights, etc., etc., protecting the freedom, security, and happiness of those who have been oppressed for so long.
Do you think the happiness of the average person, from these prehistoric times to our current situation, has increased? I imagine that few would disagree with me. It was by altering and changing these relationships between the different groups that a better, more peaceful terms of living came about. So, when we decide to examine the social mores and relationships of our own era, and discover such large amounts of suffering, the only reasonable response to these situations is this: we must reorganize society, change the relationships, repair (or revolutionize) the system itself, before we will stop seeing the damage that it causes. What we would be doing would be a revolutionary activity, in that we would be altering our own world to attain our own ends, in the most radical way possible. It would also be the tradition of spirited independence to overthrow oppressors and cast off any chains or bondage they have given to the innocent.
Our questions must be twofold. 1) What are the relationships that are causing so much stress, misery, pain, and suffering on others? 2) What can we do to change them?
Crime. What causes it? Any educated person will give the same answer: the desire or need of material objects. If the wages offered by employers do not satisfy the needs of the workers, that is to say, the people who have no property, then criminal activity becomes the result. Psychologists and psychiatrists might try to classify criminal behavior, trying to put boundaries and lines through it so that they can understand it. The one thing that they do not understand about criminal behavior is that it is not unique, that it is not special, that it is perhaps the most natural part of animal life. If a mother bear is interested in obtaining food for its young, does it ever consider the fact that it is violating trespassing laws in doing so, or does it ever consider the opinion of other bears? Maybe only insomuch as it concerns her and her cub's welfare, but beyond that, not at all. The creature is simply committing an act that is required for life. So, too, is the human who commits crime to survive, when no legitimate means of income will suffice.
The psychologist might be right that the brain changes somewhat with criminal behavior. New instincts, behaviors, reflexes, and understandings are required in group behavior. All of the shoplifters that I know, including myself, have developed group senses -- we develop a subconscious that analyzes and understands where everyone in the room is and where they are looking. This allows us the capability of seeing if we are being watched, an invaluable skill for us lifters.
Without poverty, there is no crime. Crime is caused only by the poor conditions in which human beings live, and their dire attempts to escape those conditions. At least, this can be considered true with all those conditions in which property crime is involved. We want to develop a system, an order of society, in which crime is completely eliminated. That is our objective. What ways would we mend or forge the current system so as to complete our objective? Well, when we look at those who have been inflicted with the miserable profession of criminal, what class in specific are we examining? The working class. Their relationship that brings them to poverty and eventually crime is the their relationship with the Capitalist class, or the employer class.
The only way to mend this relationship, between the haves and the have nots, is to make it so the result of it is more wealth in the pockets of the have nots. This could be done with a policy so limited and conservative as minimum wage, minimum working hours, safe working conditions, lowering the work hours per week, etc., etc.. All of these laws, if they were be implemented into a government's laws, should be based on the collective's understanding that the working man must be protected -- not from other working men, but from those whom they work for. With these limited policies, the employer class would be viewed much like the government: a necessary evil, without which we would have tranquility and peace, at least for a little while.
In a more concerned effort, we might eliminate the employer class entirely, dissolve it into the working body of citizens. It has been said that to establish Democracy, every citizen must be treated like a king. If we apply the same reasoning to economics, in an effort to eliminate the poverty that comes from Free Trade, then every citizen must be treated like a Capitalist. Using this system, the entire conflict that would arrise in a Capitalist system -- with workers fighting for living wages and the employer class fighting for worsened sweat shop conditions -- this entire conflict would be removed, and something called Communism or Socialism would take effect. The relationship that causes poverty, misery, and so much abuse of the spirit is the relationship that exists between those without property, who must sell their labor to survive, and those with property, who employ the masses to work for them. To eliminate this relationship, thus eliminating the conflict, we are establishing a better world. Among the most important revolutions, Socialism and Communism are of the highest degree for any revolutionary.
When we try to think of the relationships in society that allow for a great deal of unnecessary suffering and misery, we tend to think about the relationships that exist between us and those that we love and care about. In literature of every culture and every era, we find that adultery has been at the source of misery for so many lovers. It has been the inspiration to a volumes of sad poetry. It has been the cause of so much conflict, so much fighting, so much quarreling and violence. I admit that some cultures were intelligent and thoughtful enough to avoid such useless brutality and misery. However, as we see it in our modern world, it is quite easy to see that the relationship that exists between lovers is one of great distress and pain. We are attracted to it by the thought of happiness, pleasure, a feeling of connection and mutual understanding. The origins of intimate relationships are the same in any culture: they come from the most natural desire to feel love, as though the universe could end and all a lover could do would be to welcome it.
Yet, we see so much abuse come from this relationship that exists between lovers. The time for a new moral code is necessary. The time has always been ripe. I suggest that lovers learn to love more openly, that their relationships are not confined to one person only -- what in fact has been the cause of all these problems. If sexual activity with other partners was accepted in our modern society, then the problem of the lonely and disheartened lover disappears. When we learn to accept that sharing sexuality with others is a positive aspect of life, in that it creates affection, something beautiful, and a connection -- when we learn to accept this, then so much misery, pain, and depression would be swept out. But, the problem of the matter is in changing ourselves, in learning to accept that you cannot tell anyone what to do with their bodies, even in a relationship. I'm not evading a double standard. Men should be as promiscuous as they like, as should any woman. It may be difficult and long for individuals to overcome these social prejudices. We wince every time the thought of a forgotten lover comes to mind, and we are reminded of the pain that comes from a dead passion. We do not forget the misery that we have suffered, that others have, that others still will, and it is our intention as revolutionaries to uphold our scripture: a better world is possible.
There are so many origins of pain and so many other great reforms and alterations that could happen in our modern society to abolish the sources of misery. The animals of the world are slaughtered for the taste of their decomposing carcasses. Presidents and tyrants switch places constantly as I find more and more people confused at the political situation. Books are banned at the same moment courts rule guilt by association is "reason to convict." Men and women are thrown in jail when they make the personal decision to inebriate themselves, and gain a gentle happiness via artificial means. Workers slave away at work, hours of their lives taken away with dreams crumbling and sinking.
I want to explode when I see the walls of chain convenience stores and rip apart the monotony of a "brick after brick" architecture. In my dreams, I am taking enormous buckets of paint to make child-like paintings of clouds on the side of every Walmart. I want to place a paper-mache rose on the doorstep of every girl who feels alone, give a confident speech to every boy who feels alone. I want to scream for every rape. I want to die for every resurfaced memory. I want people to worry less about death, and think more about their life as a unique and beautiful experience. I want people to stress less about life, and concentrate on the parts of living that give a feeling of ease. Everywhere that I turn, every voice of the strangers I talk to, they are based on so many petty things. I want swing my arms and lose understanding of my consciousness, and... let go... I want to let go... And maybe find a little peace, a little understanding, a little "the beautiful part oflife is that society can be called the collective experience of every living and breathing creature," maybe in the bossom of intoxication.
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Is Fidel Castro Dead And Has A Stunt?

Fidel Castro has died and has a stunt?

Since his illness, when he withdraw from the government and give it to her brother Raul, Fidel Castro has been rarely seen. Leaders and 'progressists' intellectuals who have gone to see him, they found him just emaciated and weak.

Today its business is to write reviews of the press for publication. But ... Interestingly, it has not been taken even once a month on a wheelchair to visit his brother Raul at the seat of government. The press has not been allowed to view him outside the clinic, even in the distance and with the condition of not asking questions. Which reminds this columnist the camouflage of Saddam Hussein in Iraq. Do you remember that he had three stunts?

Well, in this case, to avoid the collapse of the myth of Cuban revolution, we face a similar fraud. It is probably that one actor is impostering Fidel and -following the kilometrical speeches given in life - a writer take the task of writing the press columns. On the other hand, feared from a flood of refugees or a bloody revolution, the U.S. government remained in silence about the matter.

Is the Fidel Castro we´ve seen real? Will there be scars on his abdomen from the surgery? It is so difficult that once a month will be transported to visit his brother Raul on ambulance and wheelchair?

For me is dead and I believe that Hugo Chavez, Evo Morales, Rafael Correa, Cristina F. de Kirchner, Tabare Vazquez, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Eduardo Galeano, Jose Saramago and others know this. When he died and where he was buried is a mistery.

What will happen if he really died? Perhaps the greatest shock won´t be in Miami but in Caracas and Buenos Aires. The fact that the ´Greatest Revolutionary of America´ is dead will turn upside down many believes between South American people. Of course, the biggest question would be why his death was kept in silence and didn´t allowed Presidents, the Cuban people, admirers, etc., to give him the latest honors. Perhaps the explanation is the very critical situation related to housing. It´s a very difficult issue to Cuba´s people to find even their own room to live. Lots of buildings and houses are suffering for the fact that there are becoming older and older. After hurricane Ike, is happened that... South American governments send help to the island in order to avoid a counter-revolution because this fact!

Let´s wait and see. But it´s too late, in my opinion, to explain why the cuban leader was so hidden from the press and the people and access to him was only available to close political friends or by his press articles.
 
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