In life there are many things that can motivate us and give the pep we need to keep going. Religious beliefs, music, talking to someone who is very positive minded, watching a film with a positive outcome, reading books on positivity... there are many things we could use. But why do some things work for others but do not work for us? Well the answer lies in the belief system we have built up over the years. Our beliefs are built from years of indoctrination of one kind or another. Our parents put beliefs into our heads, then we are taught how to think at school and then we are strongly influenced by the television, radio and or books and magazines.
These beliefs can be helpful or harmful to our goals in life. If you were raised by someone who felt that we all can only occupy one position in life and there is no reason to try and push against the position you were born into by bettering yourself, then that belief is going to have very damaging impact on your life. It is hard to believe that a parent would tell this to their child but the reason is not always to be unkind or to harm them in some way. It is often to protect them from areas of knowledge or parts of the world that the parent simply does not understand and therefore harbors fears for their children as result. Religion for example has a strong theme about humility that people take on to varying degrees. In most religious belief systems you are encouraged not to toot your own horn and certain religious sectors frown upon even adorning the body in any way that might bring 'undue' attention to someone.
Your motivation to do better would be always impacted by this belief that your parent has helped to cement into your brain. So ultimately, you may indeed listen to a motivational CD and be moved by it, or read book and be moved by the exciting promise of better, or hear a very motivational speaker who makes an impression upon you but given enough time your belief system that works against self elevation would kick in and your motivational pull would be killed.
Therefore your limiting, hindering belief systems must be tackled first if one is to be able to take flight and make progress in a meaningful way.
These beliefs can be helpful or harmful to our goals in life. If you were raised by someone who felt that we all can only occupy one position in life and there is no reason to try and push against the position you were born into by bettering yourself, then that belief is going to have very damaging impact on your life. It is hard to believe that a parent would tell this to their child but the reason is not always to be unkind or to harm them in some way. It is often to protect them from areas of knowledge or parts of the world that the parent simply does not understand and therefore harbors fears for their children as result. Religion for example has a strong theme about humility that people take on to varying degrees. In most religious belief systems you are encouraged not to toot your own horn and certain religious sectors frown upon even adorning the body in any way that might bring 'undue' attention to someone.
Your motivation to do better would be always impacted by this belief that your parent has helped to cement into your brain. So ultimately, you may indeed listen to a motivational CD and be moved by it, or read book and be moved by the exciting promise of better, or hear a very motivational speaker who makes an impression upon you but given enough time your belief system that works against self elevation would kick in and your motivational pull would be killed.
Therefore your limiting, hindering belief systems must be tackled first if one is to be able to take flight and make progress in a meaningful way.
Do you need help with this topic? The best help is usually to introduce into your life people who will fully support you and bring out only the best in you.
One of those people could be me! I'm up for it! - Are you? Pop round to my online home at coachrosie.com and soak up clear advice, tips, free products and short films on self confidence, earning enviable finance, relationships, health and self development and being the you you want to be. Let's do this!
One of those people could be me! I'm up for it! - Are you? Pop round to my online home at coachrosie.com and soak up clear advice, tips, free products and short films on self confidence, earning enviable finance, relationships, health and self development and being the you you want to be. Let's do this!
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